Are you ready? Really ready?
If you’re not ready, don’t waste one more minute reading and listening to motivational, self-help, “fix your life” stuff. Until you are really ready, to focus totally on the desired outcome, never worrying, doubting or questioning “how” your goal is to be achieved you’re not allowing your guidance (teachers) to appear. Your intense, fearful focus on worry that it won’t happen creates what you have the strongest emotion about, your goal not happening. You literally un-create more strongly than you create.
Here is a very important and useful thought. “Lack of Evidence (of the goal being achieved) Is Not Evidence of Lack” (that the goal is not going to be achieved).
We will keep our fears, worries, anger, discouragement and accumulated problems until our lives become painful enough for us to be willing to ASK for “help”. The request for help is not to solve the “problem” but to learn what personal changes are necessary. The request for help allows the “non-interference barrier to be crossed and the teachers to be sent. This requirement to be asked before help can be provided, applies to everyone, friends, relatives, “guardian angels, and even God. You see, pushing help at someone, a “student”, who is not ready and has not asked for it, is against of the law of their agency, freedom to choose and it will not be accepted.
Remember: “The mind that’s changed against its will is of the same opinion still”.
When the personal change has been achieved the “endlessly re-occurring problem cycle” disappears.
Until next time, may you have the peaceful and charmed life that you deserve.